Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Marital strife...not mine

So the couple living upstairs were having a HUGE fight this morning. I was home all alone and so I felt really sad listening to them. And as my heart was going out to them, I kept thinking that I am so lucky. I have such a wonderful companion! He is so good to me and we mesh so well it's almost disgusting! And I just wish that it was the same way for everyone! I know that might sound a little condescending but I don't mean to. I'll admit that Shane and I haven't known each other very long considering we decided to get married !! But when I met him, even the first time, I KNEW that he was special and I knew within the first 2 weeks that we would get married! We are just great together! And I just want the world to be happy. I wanted so badly to go upstairs and hug the girl this morning. (I didn't do it of course) How can you be a help though to someone you don't even know. And I don't want to say, "Oh hi, I live right under you and noticed you guys screaming at each other just now and wanted to know if I can help...?" Yeah, no.... I still feel so bad!

But married life is so much fun! Shane is such a crazy kid! He keeps it fresh and funny. I stay at home every single day and clean up and fix food and watch T.V. and rearrange things and clean up and wait for Shane to get home. It's great...yeah. Let's just say that I'm really excited to start working, January 14th!! Can't wait. Shane starts school tomorrow. Right now he's at work and he'll be there until 12:30am. It's snowing again tonight, but not so bad to drive in anymore. But anyways, I'm starting to ramble. My whole point of this blog is to express gratitude I guess. And so what anyone thinks about what I can do, if anything, for the couple upstairs. We'll see...

1 comment:

aniC said...

just be her friend. you dont have to make it awkward and say you want to help her. and maybe if you guys become friends, and her and her husband hang out with you and shane, they'll see that they could be a little nicer and more understanding with eachother.

Oh Happy Day!!!

Oh Happy Day!!!